Top 10 Tips to Increase Your Confidence… – @successwithbethany

Top 10 Tips to Increase Your Confidence…

Confidence is something that easily breaks down so we constantly need to build it back up again.

Not so long ago I was at a point in my business where I had totally hit a brick wall, things were going backwards instead of forwards. I was loosing confidence not only in my own abilities as a Network Marketer but also in the Industry in general.  

I knew I had 2 options, do something about it or quit and throw away 2 years of hard work.

One thing I’m not is a quitter, so I reached out to an amazing lady, who I follow on Facebook, she exudes confidence and she was happy to share some of her secrets with me…

I’m a true believer in the motto Learn – Grow – Share  so I want to share them with you.

Here are my top 10 quick tips for building your confidence and how to apply them to help you grow your business.

1) Be On Purpose  – Confidence is something we need to be purposely building, It’s important to become competent before we can become confident. A good place to start is to build your knowledge, it will help you grow. By reading this article you’ve already taken the first step so well done, be proud of yourself and keep up the good work.

2) Study what you don’t know & learn new skills – You are already on the right path. Learning new skills and increasing your skill set is so important to building confidence.

No one can take a learned skill away from you, EVER. Let new skills that you learn EMPOWER YOU. 

3) Guard your circle of influence – People you know WILL try to steal your dream so you need to surround yourself with people that support you and ditch the naysayers. Within your circle become the leader, become the person that lifts people up and you will in turn attract more people to you.

4) Confidence breeds confidence – Surround yourself with confident people, hang out with people that have success in their sights and want to win big. It’s true when they say you become most like the 5 people you spend the most time with so choose winners not losers. 

5) Change – If you want more confidence you have to be ready to change and the best way to do that is to shift your mind-set and never compare yourself to others. Even people that appear super confident don’t always feel it, they’ve just learnt to push themselves and never show it, remember that, it will help you in moments of self doubt.

6) Increase your persuasion skills  – You have a responsibility to your clients and prospects to provide them with a solution to a problem even when they don’t know what that problem is. You need to learn how to persuade them with integrity to join your team or buy from you.

7) Passion = Energy = Creation – Find your inner passion and get creative. You don’t know what you can do until you allow yourself to try. Want to write killer blogs, shoot powerful videos, you can learn all that but to get you started you need to unleash your creative side.

Do this and watch your confidence grow.

8) Image – Dress for success, show up as if you’re going to win. Yes I work from home and I’m lucky enough to spend my days in flipflops living on the paradise island of Tenerife. BUT when I’ve got appointments,  chatting to clients over the phone, shooting a video or a live webinar I’m dressed for success. Why? Because looking good makes me feel good which makes me feel me confident.

9) Track your activity – Writing things down is so important to your success and confidence. Having written goals and visualising them is the key. Make a vision board or a list so you can view it daily as you achieve your goals watch your confidence sour. 

10) Set a small achievable goal NOW – Make it none negotiable then work towards achieving it. Make 30 day goals and make sure you stick to them. Confidence isn’t built by one big success it’s built by a series of successes. So set small goals, achieve them and celebrate them.

Once I started to take on board these 10 Tips I began to go in search of knowledge. I was at a point in my business where I had exhausted my friends and family, my list had dried up, I had a large team but they were becoming despondent and I was loosing people as fast as I could recruit them.

Maybe you are at this point in your business too, maybe not.

I knew that if was going to rebuild confidence in myself and in my business I had to find a way to grow my list fast, from a totally cold market.

That’s when I reached out to another friend on Facebook, don’t you just love Facebook!  This friend was seeing some serious success and she told me about something called Attraction Marketing. She sent me a link to grab a spot on a coaching programme that she promised would blow my mind and give me an insight as to how the method she was using could help me in my business as well. 

So I took the plunge.

WOW! What can I say… Attraction Marketing has changed my life and my business, I’ve regained confidence in myself 10 fold and my passion for the Network Marketing Industry in general has been reignited.

My goal when I started my journey into Attraction Marketing was to complete an Ignition Coaching Programme from Elite Marketing Pro within 28 days.

The value I got from this programme was so exciting, I couldn’t learn quick enough and I finished it in just 10 days! Now I’m working toward a whole new set of goals and it’s so empowering. My confidence as I’m learning is increasing daily.

As part of the programme I enrolled in, the initial stage was Mind Set Coaching then Smart Goal Setting with a personal coach. Moving on from there I learnt how to attract people into my business without chasing them, how to get people to come me.

I’m learning the true art of using social media to grow my list. How to blog, email market and generate an endless stream of leads, prospects and customers.

I can truthfully say there is no better way to build your confidence than empowering yourself, learning new skills and finally getting results in your Network Marketing Business.

Attraction Marketing has changed everything for me and my business. So if you are ready to empower yourself, increase your skill sets and boost your business then why not take a look, this could be the missing piece of the puzzle you’ve been waiting for.

You too can grab a spot on the very same Coaching Programme that I used and get a copy of the Attraction Marketing Formula E-Book by clicking here.

Or, if you aren’t quite ready to go all out and you just want to find out what Attraction Marketing is all about. I have a FREE 10 Day Boot Camp you can take a look at. 

In this 10 day Boot Camp, you’ll learn…

  • How to use Google & Facebook to generate targeted leads, prospects and customers.
  • How to become the hunted, instead of the hunter and have prospects calling YOU about your business.
  • How to build the perfect relationship with your prospects so they want to buy from you time and time again.

Just put your details in the box below and I’ll deliver one email lesson a day straight to your inbox.

Bethany xXx

PS – What helps you build your confidence? Please share with me any tips or tricks you have, I would love to hear them.


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Bethany Powlson

Bethany has already traded in her suit for flip-flops and is living on the beautiful Island of Tenerife in the Canary Islands. Enjoying life freedom and spending days in flipflops really was the ultimate goal. Bethany has a mission to help as many people as possible generate more leads into their businesses so they can live a big dream life too.

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Charlie - April 20, 2016 Reply

Thank you sssoooo much Bethany for introducing me to and supporting me with Attraction Marketing. I never thought I would wake up on a daily basis with fresh new leads! Ingenious system!

    Bethany Powlson - April 26, 2016 Reply

    Hey Charlie, you are very welcome… nothing better than waking up to leads, sales & commissions.
    Keep up the good work and I’m here to offer my continued support.

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